Sunday, February 6, 2011

What'll she eat?

This is a common question in our house.  Since I am an eater with a lot of "rules" including not eating meat, many people wonder what my expectations for MacKenzie will be.  The bottom line is:  both Scott & I want her to make her own decisions about what to eat when she's old enough to make such decisions.  That doesn't make the conversations about what "might" happen any less entertaining:

So, when I was still at home and dieting post-pregnancy, I was eating Grape Nuts everyday.  It's a filling "meal" and became a staple.  Since heading back to work, eating cereal is less practical, so I'm not drinking much milk.  Scott mentioned this weekend that he had to get a smaller milk at the store because I had "goofed up our milk consumption." 

My response was, "well, in the next year you can share milk with MacKenzie." 
His response was, "Oh cool.  When can she start drinking chocolate milk?" 
I said, "Oh, not for a while.  She should probably wait until she's at least three if not older.  Even then it should only be an occasional treat." 
He said, "Oh no.  You're going to make her eat like you aren't you?  All kinds of weird restrictions." 
I said, "No.  I just don't want her to have sugar or chocolate too early.  There's no need for it. Giving it to her too early is unnecessary.  She won't want it or have a taste for it." 
He said, "So, when can she have chocolate cake?"
I said, "Well, she could probably have a cupcake or something on her first birthday."
He responded, "Great.  So, she can only have chocolate cake once per year like you?"
I said, "No, no.  But she doesn't need to live on it either." 

Grandpa Floyd weighs in regularly that he'd like to feed her steak.  You see, once upon a time, I did eat meat.  In fact, it seems I loved "juicy meat."  My dad couldn't cut the steak fast enough for me.  He's convinced it will likely be the same with MacKenzie.  He's probably right!

There won't be any steak, cake or chocolate milk for a while.  But she sure is interested in eating these days.  She watches us closely and even mimics our eating while she watches.  We head to the pediatrician this week.  We'll see if he is ready for us to start rice cereal or wait until she's 6 months old. 

It should be interesting.  We decided before she was born that she should be the one to make decisions about what she eats.  I was able to decide whether or not I'd be a vegetarian.  She should be able to decide if she loves meat or doesn't like it.  With a ravenous carnivore as a Dad and a restrictive vegetarian as as Mom...it should be interesting.  

Will it be carrot salads or steak?  Only time will tell :-)


4 comments:

  1. Everyone gave me the hardest time when Jonathan was little if I was going to let him eat meat or not. My thoughts are the exact same, let them choose what they like and what they don't. Now he will eat everything, literally. Lilah on the other hand I was not so lucky with, if it doesn't look like a chicken nugget or mac and cheese from the box she is not a fan. Hope Mackenzie will grow up liking a variety of foods, rules or not :)

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  2. With your vegetarian cooking in the house (especially the potage), she's going to have zero difficult choices in life. But I think of that a lot - whether a vegetarian/vegan lifestyle is best for children. How was your pregnancy with a restricted diet? We have to get together because I'm dying to know how everything went for you.

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  3. The pregnancy was great. I tracked my protein intake daily because I was concerned about it being low, but I was able to get between 60-80 grams per day. Lance Armstrong's live strong site has a diet tracking system. I used it for the protein calculations. My doctors weren't concerned at all about me being a vegetarian. My one big weakness during my pregnancy was peanut butter. I had two tablespoons every night before bed!! I miss it!! Yes Duff...you definitely need to come visit!

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  4. I am also a "super crazy vegetarian" with a cow a week eater in the house. We agreed that no meat until after a year and then just turkey and chicken until about two years. By then I had "brainwashed" him according to daddy to not eat cows. He is almost 5 and will not eat pork or beef because it tastes bad. There is also no MSG, nitrates, red dyes of corn syrup in his food--just like mommy. Henry is a week younger than your daughter and I will hope for the same sucess, but I don't think daddy will be so tolerant this time around. I started rice with mine over the weekend-my first son ate at the same age and no allergies-best of luck, you are doing great and this is a good nursery rhyme. *There are plenty of things to eat without choosing meat*.

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